{"id":1710,"date":"2022-07-17T09:30:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-17T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/twochurches.org\/?p=1710"},"modified":"2022-07-18T13:24:14","modified_gmt":"2022-07-18T17:24:14","slug":"vulnerable-hospitality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/twochurches.org\/index.php\/2022\/07\/17\/vulnerable-hospitality\/","title":{"rendered":"Vulnerable Hospitality"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Year C<br>\u00a0Genesis 18:1-10a<br>\u00a0Psalm 15<br>\u00a0Colossians 1:15-28<br>\u00a0Luke 10:38-42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>May the words of my mouth O God\u2026&nbsp; speak your truth\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Lord appeared to Abraham by the oaks of Mamre\u2026&nbsp; and he looked up and saw three men<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; one Hebrew commentary I have\u2026&nbsp; says that as in some Canaanite literature\u2026&nbsp; as was often the case\u2026&nbsp; the deity was accompanied by his two attendants\u2026&nbsp; but Abraham doesn&#8217;t even stop to ask them who they are\u2026&nbsp; he immediately begins to extend Middle Eastern hospitality\u2026&nbsp; becoming a Martha as it were\u2026 &nbsp;bringing water so they can wash the dust off their feet\u2026&nbsp; and promising refreshment before they continued on\u2026&nbsp; and he runs around\u2026&nbsp; asking Sarah to take three measures\u2026&nbsp; not of any old flour\u2026&nbsp; but of choice flour\u2026&nbsp; so she can make cakes of bread\u2026&nbsp; and he takes from the herd a calf that is tender and good&#8230;&nbsp; and he serves the three curds and milk along with the calf that had been prepared\u2026&nbsp; <em>this was not\u2026&nbsp; by the way\u2026&nbsp; a kosher meal<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and like a preeminent host\u2026&nbsp; like a fine waiter\u2026&nbsp; he stands by while they eat\u2026&nbsp; against the possibility that something else might be needed\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abraham and Sarah didn&#8217;t have any advance notice of their visitors\u2026&nbsp; but they rose to the occasion\u2026&nbsp; they put on their best\u2026&nbsp; and likewise\u2026&nbsp; when many of us are expecting guests\u2026&nbsp; whether for dinner or an evening visit\u2026&nbsp; we may ask about any beverage and food preferences\u2026&nbsp; or allergies\u2026&nbsp; we tidy up the house\u2026 &nbsp;we clean the guest bathroom if there is one\u2026&nbsp; and put out fresh towels\u2026&nbsp; we know how to be hospitable\u2026&nbsp; but there is risk in being hospitable\u2026&nbsp; there is risk in being welcoming\u2026&nbsp; over and over again in scripture\u2026&nbsp; we read stories about Jesus welcoming and eating with those who others would not\u2026&nbsp; but we sometimes ask ourselves\u2026&nbsp; how well do we know these people\u2026&nbsp; how well do those we know\u2026&nbsp; know them\u2026&nbsp; are they people we can trust\u2026&nbsp; letting them into our homes\u2026&nbsp; or given the chance\u2026&nbsp; will they look in our medicine cabinet\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But this time\u2026&nbsp; it&#8217;s Martha\u2026&nbsp; a homeowner\u2026&nbsp; who welcomes Jesus\u2026&nbsp; and we suppose the disciples too\u2026&nbsp; into her home\u2026&nbsp; and offers them hospitality\u2026&nbsp; while her sister Mary sits at Jesus&#8217; feet&#8230;&nbsp; and listens to what he says\u2026&nbsp; or teaches\u2026&nbsp; or simply basks in his presence\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the text says\u2026&nbsp; <em>Martha was distracted by her many tasks<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and since one of the meanings of the Greek word that&#8217;s translated as <em>distracted<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; also means\u2026&nbsp; <em>to be driven about mentally<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and so I think the nugget here is less about the number of tasks for which Martha feels responsible\u2026&nbsp; and more on Martha&#8217;s state of mind&#8230;&nbsp; she laments\u2026&nbsp; <em>Lord\u2026&nbsp; do you not care\u2026 that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and her words remind me of Mark&#8217;s version of the Stilling of the Storm\u2026&nbsp; in Ch. 4:38\u2026&nbsp; when the disciples cry out\u2026&nbsp; <em>Teacher\u2026&nbsp; do you not care that we are perishing<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; forgetting perhaps\u2026&nbsp; that with them was the One\u2026&nbsp; who in the beginning\u2026&nbsp; separated the waters from the land\u2026&nbsp; turned chaos into order\u2026&nbsp; and who even the winds and the seas obey\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But unfortunately\u2026&nbsp; again\u2026&nbsp; we have been set up by the translation itself into a shallow meaning and rigid duality of sorts\u2026&nbsp; of believing that what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; is better than what Martha is doing\u2026&nbsp; of wondering why\u2026&nbsp; even though it was Martha&#8217;s home\u2026&nbsp; why Mary didn&#8217;t just jump in and help her sister\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the Greek word\u2026&nbsp; <em>agathos<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; which the NRSV translates as <em>better<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; can also be translated simply as <em>good<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and if it&#8217;s not better\u2026&nbsp; but just good\u2026&nbsp; then it also becomes difficult to believe that what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; sitting at Jesus&#8217; feet\u2026&nbsp; being more of a contemplative\u2026&nbsp; is better than what Martha is doing&#8230; and when we think about what Martha is doing\u2026&nbsp; rushing around as Abraham did\u2026&nbsp; and being more of a householder\u2026 is worse than what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; or not doing\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now there&#8217;s an expression in one of Hinduism&#8217;s sacred texts\u2026&nbsp; the Bhagavad Gita\u2026&nbsp;&nbsp; which has a parallel in Christian thought\u2026&nbsp; in the Sanskrit it says\u2026&nbsp; <em>Yogas-thah kuru karmani<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; which means\u2026&nbsp; <em>Established in Being\u2026&nbsp; perform action<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; in other words\u2026&nbsp; first become established in the Ground of Being\u2026&nbsp; in the silent presence of Wisdom\u2026&nbsp; of the Christ Mind\u2026&nbsp; and from that state of being\u2026&nbsp; from that place of knowledge\u2026&nbsp; then act\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And while it may be possible to think of Mary as aligned with thoughts and prayers\u2026&nbsp; and of Martha as aligned with actions\u2026&nbsp; when we understand that our actions arise out of our inner awareness\u2026&nbsp; then we can understand that the more awake we are\u2026&nbsp; the more our actions will honor the archetypes of both Mary and Martha\u2026&nbsp; and be more in line with God&#8217;s will\u2026&nbsp; and God&#8217;s justice\u2026&nbsp; for all people\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Rev. Phil Hooper\u2026&nbsp; Curate at Trinity Episcopal Church in Fort Wayne\u2026&nbsp; Indiana\u2026&nbsp; writes\u2026&nbsp; when we hear Luke\u2019s Gospel today\u2026&nbsp; we might still ask ourselves\u2026&nbsp; which one am I\u2026&nbsp; Martha or Mary\u2026&nbsp; busy or mindful\u2026&nbsp; striving or tranquil\u2026&nbsp; perhaps\u2026&nbsp; even as you hear the question right now&#8230;&nbsp; you can feel the pressure of needing to have the right answer\u2026&nbsp; to measure up\u2026&nbsp; to choose the better part\u2026&nbsp; but before you get too lost in all of that\u2026&nbsp; let me tell you\u2026&nbsp; spoiler alert\u2026&nbsp; it\u2019s a trick question\u2026&nbsp; it&#8217;s a false choice\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s false&#8230;&nbsp; quite simply&#8230;&nbsp; because it is not the choice that Jesus\u2026&nbsp; by way of this text&#8230;&nbsp; asks us to make\u2026&nbsp; Jesus is not pitting the sisters against each another&#8230;&nbsp; nor is he creating a hierarchy of types of disciples\u2026&nbsp; the duality that we read into the text is our own creation\u2026&nbsp; borne of our own desire to make the world more comprehensible\u2026&nbsp; and perhaps more controllable\u2026&nbsp; through categories and labels\u2026&nbsp; we do this all the time\u2026&nbsp; in ways both benign\u2026&nbsp; <em>like the roles we take on in a group of friends<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; and destructive\u2026&nbsp; <em>like the reductive stereotypes that continue to harm people at the margins<\/em>\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But this is not Jesus\u2019 agenda\u2026&nbsp; when he tells Martha that Mary has chosen the better part\u2026&nbsp; he is not challenging Martha\u2019s personality\u2026&nbsp; nor is he even rejecting Martha\u2019s present busyness&#8230;&nbsp; but is instead gently calling her back to the fullness of herself\u2026&nbsp; reminding her of both the Ground of her Being\u2026&nbsp; and the <em>telos<\/em>\u2026&nbsp; which means the intentional endpoint\u2026&nbsp; of all of this good\u2026&nbsp; hard\u2026&nbsp; and necessary work\u2026&nbsp; namely himself\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Martha lives and serves\u2026&nbsp; as we all do\u2026&nbsp; in the name of Jesus\u2026&nbsp; the One who has knocked upon her door and who now abides in the midst of her activities\u2026&nbsp; the cooking and the cleaning and the mending and the tending of small daily things\u2026&nbsp; all of this holds the possibility of divine in-breaking\u2026&nbsp; but only when those things are done in mindfulness of God\u2019s ever-present love\u2026&nbsp; that mindfulness is what we must bring to the table as disciples\u2026&nbsp; and so Jesus simply wants Martha not to lose sight of him\u2026&nbsp; knowing\u2026&nbsp; as he does\u2026&nbsp; how easy it is to become\u2026&nbsp; worried and distracted by many things\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And we too are called\u2026&nbsp; not to a rigid duality\u2026&nbsp; but a fluid and dynamic one\u2026&nbsp; one that waxes and wanes as we take care of ourselves\u2026&nbsp; and those around us\u2026 &nbsp;from a place of deep silence&#8230;&nbsp; our need for self-care\u2026&nbsp; for the physical\u2026&nbsp; emotional\u2026&nbsp; psychological\u2026&nbsp; and spiritual aspects of ourselves\u2026&nbsp; is paramount\u2026 &nbsp;but the need for each of us to become Established in Being is critical too\u2026&nbsp; because we cannot offer an unconditional welcome to those who are different from us\u2026&nbsp; we cannot offer in God&#8217;s name what we do not possess\u2026&nbsp; but when we invite Jesus into our inner reality\u2026&nbsp; we can experience this boundlessness as our true Nature\u2026&nbsp; we can welcome everyone\u2026&nbsp; resting in the certainty that God protects us in our vulnerability\u2026&nbsp; so that we too can lavish hospitality on each and every one who knocks on our door\u2026&nbsp; as though they were Christ himself\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Year C\u00a0Genesis 18:1-10a\u00a0Psalm 15\u00a0Colossians 1:15-28\u00a0Luke 10:38-42 May the words of my mouth O God\u2026&nbsp; speak your truth\u2026 The Lord appeared to Abraham by the oaks of Mamre\u2026&nbsp; and he looked up and saw three men\u2026&nbsp; one Hebrew commentary I have\u2026&nbsp; says that as in some Canaanite literature\u2026&nbsp; as was often the case\u2026&nbsp; the deity was accompanied by his two attendants\u2026&nbsp; but Abraham doesn&#8217;t even stop to ask them who they are\u2026&nbsp; he immediately begins to extend Middle Eastern hospitality\u2026&nbsp; becoming a Martha as it were\u2026 &nbsp;bringing water so they can wash the dust off their feet\u2026&nbsp; and promising refreshment before they continued on\u2026&nbsp; and he runs around\u2026&nbsp; asking Sarah to take three measures\u2026&nbsp; not of any old flour\u2026&nbsp; but of choice flour\u2026&nbsp; so she can make cakes of bread\u2026&nbsp; and he takes from the herd a calf that is tender and good&#8230;&nbsp; and he serves the three curds and milk along with the calf that had been prepared\u2026&nbsp; this was not\u2026&nbsp; by the way\u2026&nbsp; a kosher meal\u2026&nbsp; and like a preeminent host\u2026&nbsp; like a fine waiter\u2026&nbsp; he stands by while they eat\u2026&nbsp; against the possibility that something else might be needed\u2026 Abraham and Sarah didn&#8217;t have any advance notice of their visitors\u2026&nbsp; but they rose to the occasion\u2026&nbsp; they put on their best\u2026&nbsp; and likewise\u2026&nbsp; when many of us are expecting guests\u2026&nbsp; whether for dinner or an evening visit\u2026&nbsp; we may ask about any beverage and food preferences\u2026&nbsp; or allergies\u2026&nbsp; we tidy up the house\u2026 &nbsp;we clean the guest bathroom if there is one\u2026&nbsp; and put out fresh towels\u2026&nbsp; we know how to be hospitable\u2026&nbsp; but there is risk in being hospitable\u2026&nbsp; there is risk in being welcoming\u2026&nbsp; over and over again in scripture\u2026&nbsp; we read stories about Jesus welcoming and eating with those who others would not\u2026&nbsp; but we sometimes ask ourselves\u2026&nbsp; how well do we know these people\u2026&nbsp; how well do those we know\u2026&nbsp; know them\u2026&nbsp; are they people we can trust\u2026&nbsp; letting them into our homes\u2026&nbsp; or given the chance\u2026&nbsp; will they look in our medicine cabinet\u2026 But this time\u2026&nbsp; it&#8217;s Martha\u2026&nbsp; a homeowner\u2026&nbsp; who welcomes Jesus\u2026&nbsp; and we suppose the disciples too\u2026&nbsp; into her home\u2026&nbsp; and offers them hospitality\u2026&nbsp; while her sister Mary sits at Jesus&#8217; feet&#8230;&nbsp; and listens to what he says\u2026&nbsp; or teaches\u2026&nbsp; or simply basks in his presence\u2026 And the text says\u2026&nbsp; Martha was distracted by her many tasks\u2026&nbsp; and since one of the meanings of the Greek word that&#8217;s translated as distracted\u2026&nbsp; also means\u2026&nbsp; to be driven about mentally\u2026&nbsp; and so I think the nugget here is less about the number of tasks for which Martha feels responsible\u2026&nbsp; and more on Martha&#8217;s state of mind&#8230;&nbsp; she laments\u2026&nbsp; Lord\u2026&nbsp; do you not care\u2026 that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself\u2026&nbsp; and her words remind me of Mark&#8217;s version of the Stilling of the Storm\u2026&nbsp; in Ch. 4:38\u2026&nbsp; when the disciples cry out\u2026&nbsp; Teacher\u2026&nbsp; do you not care that we are perishing\u2026&nbsp; forgetting perhaps\u2026&nbsp; that with them was the One\u2026&nbsp; who in the beginning\u2026&nbsp; separated the waters from the land\u2026&nbsp; turned chaos into order\u2026&nbsp; and who even the winds and the seas obey\u2026 But unfortunately\u2026&nbsp; again\u2026&nbsp; we have been set up by the translation itself into a shallow meaning and rigid duality of sorts\u2026&nbsp; of believing that what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; is better than what Martha is doing\u2026&nbsp; of wondering why\u2026&nbsp; even though it was Martha&#8217;s home\u2026&nbsp; why Mary didn&#8217;t just jump in and help her sister\u2026 But the Greek word\u2026&nbsp; agathos\u2026&nbsp; which the NRSV translates as better\u2026&nbsp; can also be translated simply as good\u2026&nbsp; and if it&#8217;s not better\u2026&nbsp; but just good\u2026&nbsp; then it also becomes difficult to believe that what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; sitting at Jesus&#8217; feet\u2026&nbsp; being more of a contemplative\u2026&nbsp; is better than what Martha is doing&#8230; and when we think about what Martha is doing\u2026&nbsp; rushing around as Abraham did\u2026&nbsp; and being more of a householder\u2026 is worse than what Mary is doing\u2026&nbsp; or not doing\u2026 Now there&#8217;s an expression in one of Hinduism&#8217;s sacred texts\u2026&nbsp; the Bhagavad Gita\u2026&nbsp;&nbsp; which has a parallel in Christian thought\u2026&nbsp; in the Sanskrit it says\u2026&nbsp; Yogas-thah kuru karmani\u2026&nbsp; which means\u2026&nbsp; Established in Being\u2026&nbsp; perform action\u2026&nbsp; in other words\u2026&nbsp; first become established in the Ground of Being\u2026&nbsp; in the silent presence of Wisdom\u2026&nbsp; of the Christ Mind\u2026&nbsp; and from that state of being\u2026&nbsp; from that place of knowledge\u2026&nbsp; then act\u2026 And while it may be possible to think of Mary as aligned with thoughts and prayers\u2026&nbsp; and of Martha as aligned with actions\u2026&nbsp; when we understand that our actions arise out of our inner awareness\u2026&nbsp; then we can understand that the more awake we are\u2026&nbsp; the more our actions will honor the archetypes of both Mary and Martha\u2026&nbsp; and be more in line with God&#8217;s will\u2026&nbsp; and God&#8217;s justice\u2026&nbsp; for all people\u2026 The Rev. 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